Ep. 45: Laurie Berkner describes music’s stabilizing effect for children during uncertain times, and serenades her graduating childhood fans

Ep. 45: Laurie Berkner describes music’s stabilizing effect for children during uncertain times, and serenades her graduating childhood fans

Photo by Jayme Thornton

June 2, 2020

 

Dubbed “the Adele of the preschool crowd” by The New York Times, Laurie Berkner explains the role music plays in children’s lives, both in “normal” times and times of anxiety.  She has a special message for Class of 2020 seniors, many of whom first fell in love with music as toddlers because of Laurie’s music!

Photo by Jayme Thornton

Guest

I am so excited to have with me today the award-winning singer, songwriter, lyricist, and author Laurie Berkner, who has been dubbed “the Adele of the preschool crowd” by The New York Times, and “the queen of kids’ music” by People magazine. Laurie has performed at Lincoln Center, Carnegie Hall, and the White House; she has more than 10 million monthly streams; and my personal favorite credential: she creates music that not only children, but PARENTS, love!! 

Notes

  • Here is the mug that my mother-in-law gave to my daughter (a graduating high school senior).
  • Mindy shares her personal connection to Laurie’s music, and how it saved her sanity during the parent-of-preschoolers stage!
  • Laurie discusses the role music plays in children’s lives, in “normal” times AND in times of uncertainty.
  • Music allows children to connect with others AND themselves; enables expression of both positive AND negative emotions in a healthy, constructive way; provides a sense of stability; has a calming effect; serves as a source of bonding and connectedness. 
  • Mindy’s favorite Laurie Berkner song, “The Goldfish (Let’s Go Swimming)” allows kids to be energetic and then “go to sleep” – pure genius. Mindy says: “It gave me the illusion of control for a brief moment, and that’s all I needed to keep on going. Confession: I actually would use that song when I was helping out with my kids’ Sunday school class – it had absolutely nothing to do with Sunday school, but it immediately got all the kids attention and got them to calm down for the next activity!”

  • We also discuss Berkner’s song, “We Are The Dinosaurs,” a perfect example of a song that allows children to express anger and frustration – and experience a sense of power and control – in a healthy, constructive way.

Improv

Laurie says: Make up a song about whatever you are doing. Taking a walk? “I’m walking with you – one step then two, we’re walking!” Going to the doctor?  “I’m going to the doctor today, when I get there what will she say?” Taking a bath? “It’s time to take a bath, gonna get myself all clean.” It doesn’t matter if it rhymes – though that can make it more fun. Just make up something about what you’re doing. It can be something you come back to next time, or maybe the next time you make up a brand new song, just bring music to whatever you do. It builds connection, creates memories and makes things really fun!  Especially as an adult, improvising a song with your child is a beautiful gift to give. It shows you are willing to be vulnerable, engaged and possibly a bit silly, all at the same time.

Connect

Coda

Laurie shares her song “I’ve Got So Much to Give” as a sendoff to the graduates of 2020 (and to her fans currently graduating from preschool!). She says, “ I hope it will remind them of all they have learned – and already have inside of themselves – that they can now share with the rest of the world in their new role as graduates.” (“I’ve Got So Much to Give” is from Laurie’s album, Superhero.)

 Closing Words

Thank you, Laurie, for your time with us today, your special message to graduates, and for all you do to enhance lives with music! If you’re looking for a special way to celebrate Father’s Day, Laurie is performing a Live, Interactive, Virtual Concert on Sunday, June 21, 2020; and tickets just went on sale a few days ago. Most dads are notoriously difficult to buy gifts for (my husband is no exception!), and these tickets could be your “ticket” to a memorable-experience-gift for the special dad or grandfather and kids in your life. Laurie mentioned to me that this might also be fun for graduating seniors to attend – to take a trip down memory lane and bring back some fun childhood feelings withOUT being surrounded by a pack of preschoolers! For more information and tickets, go to www.www.laurieberkner.com/concerts, scroll down to the June 21 event, and click More Info.  If you have a favorite Laurie Berkner song or memory, please let me know! You can connect with me on my website, social media, or email – all links are on my website. Last but not least, I want to acknowledge that the last couple weeks have been very painful ones for my community here in the Twin Cities of Minneapolis/St. Paul, and for our entire country, with heart-breaking events of tragedy and violence stemming from the horrific killing of George Floyd here in Minneapolis.  Add to that the ongoing pandemic, and there are a lot of people, not just in the US, but around the world, who are really hurting right now. My hope is that justice will be served and that, somehow, redemption will come out of all of this pain and that all of us – in the US and across the world – will be able to see ourselves as brothers and sisters in one race, the human race. Thank you for joining me today. Until next week, may your life be enhanced with the healing power of music.

Postscript

Thanks to my kids for their reactions and for giving me permission to share these videos! Note: I usually discourage my kids from playing on the stairs, but now that they’re teens, if they’re interacting I’ll take it wherever we are!

 

 

https://videos.files.wordpress.com/GuAE3wIK/ep.-45-we-are-the-dinosaurs_hd.mp4

We Are the Dinosaurs

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Memories

What Feelings Now?

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Shoutout to LB!

7 responses to “Ep. 45: Laurie Berkner describes music’s stabilizing effect for children during uncertain times, and serenades her graduating childhood fans”

  1. Thanks so much to both of your kids for letting you post those awesome videos!!! I’m sending a big virtual hug to your daughter for her kind words – I’m so happy my songs still spark joy for her and bring back memories of freedom, and happy, carefree times. It was so beautiful to watch her talk about that. Thanks for a super fun interview!! <3 Laurie

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